May a fantasy be considered as abnormal?

They say: "Dreaming is leaving in advance, just expect that things be done in the exactitude of your will". Fantasy is sexing in the mind. That is how you see yourself in different positions, ways, even but not nessecary with many sexual partners. You can see you fu*k or f*cked very weirdly, like giving or asking to be given in the back, pressuring the breasts, pinkling or being so. There are girls who like to be beated. You bet? But it is true even hurted to see their blood spill that they can enhance the orgasm be in the time or sensasion. So many ways people see themselves sexing that I would take the whole day to teach you by example.
      Now let's say this: "Can be a fantasy considered as abnormal?" Is everyone possible to be realized?  How do you deal with your soulmate just to communicate your wants? I want to emphasize with the first question that reffers to abnormality or obcenity during a sex period. For both you and your activist, let's put another category the rest of the world the education matters so much when it comes to make vivid your sexual desire. Knowing what sex means and how this last one is made largely depends on
1, his/her sentimental background,
2, what they have thought him/her and
3, also his/her own fantasy.
Unfortunately I am not able still to say whether or not some are abnormal due that every body doesn't live the same mental state, however I would like to tell you expect what you know you can find.
      The second question talked about realisation in everything you dream. What I know: "Only the female spider after the intercourse eats the male one every living creature being able to yoke do it by their way. What can you imagine that can not be done? Hanging down when f*cking? I surely know you would not be killed if this were to be because you are after love, freedom, pleasure for your soul, teasing your legs or making your genital parties feel good, that is to say: " live by the way you think is better to".
      The question of communicating must be the interest in the person with whom so are you that means if this one is friendly, comprehensive even talkative. Anyway there are plenty of manner you can say something that people can understand why not to taking an active part in it that is not nessecary means to open the mouth. Put your finger in your ass if you want to let him know that is where you want to experience. Slap her in the face if any want of humilliating or being humilliated, sexually act of course. Push her, give him slowly, believe you both will understand what is is involved from you.
      I do not want to fill your head with things knowing that not everyone is in the same level of understand nor practicing what they have just learned. Hereby I leave you with first the advice of becoming who you really want to, and form your caracter by learning new technics. Sex is playable but if you dont know the rules you will always lose even if you give all of yourself.